People often filter what we say through the lenses of their own experiences
and come to a faulty conclusion. This gives us two options: to try to correct
their perception or to ignore their remarks. I usually endeavor to clarify what
I said, but if they still misunderstand, then I just change the subject. I
learned to do this because of Jesus’ example. He did not attempt to maintain
His reputation.
When He was reviled and misunderstood, He did not berate in return
(1 Peter 2:23-24). His life was the epitome of kindness, compassion,
forgiveness and acceptance, and ours can be too (Ephesians 4:32). Whether the
offense is a major event, such as physical abuse, or if it consists of
habitual, smaller impositions such as lies and betrayal, we can still forgive
the offenders (Matthew 5:44).
When we consider the life of Christ and what He endured on this
earth, it helps us not to grow weary of the way we are overlooked, discounted,
abused, ridiculed and exploited (Hebrews 12:3). When we bless those who curse
us and pray for those who hurt or use us (Luke 6:28), God continually blesses
us and gives us so many reasons to rejoice (Psalm 109:28).
We do not act as a doormat, but we do turn the other cheek. We do
not submit to abuse, but we do forgive the abuser. We can care for and nurture
our needs and still love others through the love of God in us. It is only by
sincerely wishing others the best, that our healing is complete. The only
person in our life, which we need to impress, is God; and He loves us enough to
die for us.
Prayer:
Father God, make us vessels of Your peace. When we are condemned,
help us to bless; when we are wounded, help us to share Your healing love with
the offender. Remind us that You did not defend your reputation and there is no
reason for us to do so either. Your opinion of us is the only one that really
matters. Keep us focused on eternity and help us to realize that this world
will soon end.
Thought for the Day
If we do not repay evil or insult in kind, but give love in
return, we will inherit God’s blessings. – 1 Peter 3:9