Showing posts with label unhappy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label unhappy. Show all posts

Wednesday, May 25, 2016

Living in Contentment




 Pink Flower during Sunrise

God equips us to live in His abundant life, but we do not recognize it, because we are too worried about some aspect in our worldly life. We want this person, place or thing more than we want to live in the will of God.

In my walk with the Lord, I have learned that if I do not have something I think that I need, or that I want so much that it consumes my every waking and sleeping thought, it is because God does not want me to have it.

God protects us by withholding from us what is not good for us at this time. If I go out and procure my desire for myself, if I settle for second best and choose my way instead of God's way, I am always disappointed and I cause trouble for myself.

If I focus instead on loving God with each moment, He will provide for me what I need in order for me to accomplish His will for my life. In His provision, which He gives me in His way and timing, I find complete fulfillment, peace and joy.

God has a perfect plan for our life. Altering that plan will bring us discontentment, suffering and unhappiness. He supplies us with His church and the world around us to give us opportunities to serve Him, which helps us to find pure joy in our day.

There is a time for grief in our life too. We can journal our feelings, allow our tears to wash away our grief and tuck our thoughts and feelings in the heart of God for His safe keeping.

I actually purchased a heart-shaped box and I write all of my desires and concerns on little slips of paper in that box. Then when I think about them again, I remind myself that they are in the heart of God, and He will care for them for me (1 Peter 5:7).

I review my little box from time to time and write the date that God answered that prayer and supplied those needs in His timing and way. This builds up my faith and also prevents me from living in torment from overwhelming grief and worries which I cannot control.

Prayer:
Father God, when we are consumed by longings for what we do not have, we are actually insulting You and Your provision for our life. We beg You, quote scriptures at You and attempt to control You by having faith in what we interpret as Your promises. Teach us to enter Your rest and to trust in Your provision.

You are sovereign over the world and our life. You give us what You want us to have when You want us to have it. Remind us that as we seek You and Your Kingdom first, You will provide us with what we require, even if it is often not what we think we want. Your provision is always better than our desires, because You know what is best for us and You have our best interest at heart.

Thought for the Day:
If our faith in God is vibrant, and full of awe and expectation, we will be open to move into the deeper waters of faith and committed service to Him, as we allow Him to provide for us what we need to live in fulfillment and contentment.


Sunday, February 2, 2014

That I May Know God









When we experience an unhappy event in our life, a trial that threatens to mortally wound our body or soul, we can view it as a long corridor. A hallway between two rooms; between the room we just came from and the unknown destination we are heading toward. We can trust that our destination will be one of great joy and rejoicing, because God promises that He will work everything out for our good (Romans 8:28).

Rather than wallowing in depression or mourning our losses, we can rejoice at what lies ahead, because this adventure in the corridor of life is leading us to a new room, which God already prepared for us (Ephesians 2:10). We will serve Him in a different and exciting way. Even if the issues in the new room are different than we are used to, even if we are physically disfigure or about to cross the threshold of life into eternity, it is all still for our good and to build His Kingdom.

Jesus walked through the passageway of the cross and death, but He ended up in the glories of Heaven. As we fellowship in his sufferings, we are learning to know Him more intimately (Philippians 3:9-11). We will also experience the power of his resurrection, and be conformed through the death of our carnality into His divine nature (Philippians 3:10). As we allow our dreams and plans for our life to bow in submission to God’s plans for us, we learn the reality of, “I no longer live, but Christ lives in me” (Galatians 2:20).

God’s plans for our life (Ephesians 2:10) now consume our own goals, because we realize that He created us for so much more than we could ever dream possible (Psalm 32:8). We walk in the Spirit and no longer fulfill the lusts of our flesh (Galatians 5:16,25). We come to live in one Spirit with Him (1 Corinthians 6:17). We experience complete union with Him and our Father God (John 10:30), with all of the fullness of the entire Godhead dwelling within us (Colossians 1:27, 2:9).

Prayer:
Father God, help me not to fear change, but to trust You in all things. I desire for my thoughts, words and actions to line up according to Your will for them. I want to know you intimately in a relationship, which Your Word states that we can enjoy. I cannot contain all of the love You pour into my life every day, so I just give it away as fast as I receive it. Help everyone to see Christ in me and to turn their hearts over to You while they still have time.

Thought for the Day:
God has a purpose in allowing changes into our life, and He is keeping us in the center of His will.




 

Thursday, May 10, 2012

Spirit, Soul and Body

Read: Luke 16:19-31

Genesis 1:26 states, "And God said, Let us make man in our image, after our likeness."

God is a triune being...Father, Son and Spirit. He created us triune beings in His image. That triune image manifests itself in mankind in the spirit, soul and body. "And the very God of peace sanctify you wholly; and I pray God your whole spirit and soul and body be preserved blameless unto the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ." - 1 Thessalonians 5:23

For the Christian, the life of Christ flows through us. It affects us physically because He brings us healing; it affects us spiritually, because if we ask Him to, He dwells within us and guarantees us eternal life (Romans 8:11); and it also affects our soul. People live a lifetime trying to find fulfillment in their soul ~ the mind, will and emotions. They cater to the flesh, buying every gadget known to man to make them happy, trying to amass wealth in the process. Yet, they are never happy and always want something more or different.

I know some people who are never happy in one place for very long, so they move often. Others want every new fad in clothes and accessories, phones, stereo equipment, cars, etc. Some people constantly change jobs, trying to find one they enjoy more than the previous one. Some even change mates whenever the current one is no longer exciting, solicitous or physically perfect. They seek pleasure rather than Godliness.

We often pray for the body to get well, and for God to fill our spirit; but do we ever pray for the soul? With the Spirit of God residing within us, He will fill our soul with all the fruit of His Spirit...love, joy, peace, patience, gentleness, goodness, meekness, self-control and faith (Galatians 5:22). He will heal us from every negative emotion from the past, which we have hidden in our soul (Philippians 4:8). Our mind is renewed with the mind of Christ (Romans 12:2); our will is submitted to the will of God (Philippians 2:13); and our emotions are controlled by the spirit of God dwelling within us (James 1:19).

Therefore, when we are angry, we can sit quietly and ask God to fill our soul with gentleness, love and peace from our spirit. When we are anxious, we can ask God to fill us with patience, peace, and faith. When we feel self-sufficient, we can request that God fill our soul with meekness, goodness, and self-control. When we feel sad or depressed or hopeless, we can request an infilling of joy that will strengthen us (Nehemiah 8:10) and give us peace that passes all understanding (Philippians 4:7).

More important than the soul, however, is the spirit. The spirit is dead within us at birth, until we ask Jesus Christ to be our Savior. We cannot truly live integrated, connective lives until we are born again. Then the Holy Spirit breathes the breath of life into our spirit. Genesis 2: 7 states, "And the LORD God formed man (body) of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life (spirit); and man became a living soul." At death, the body ends up in the grave. However, the soul and spirit go on to our eternal destination (Luke 16:19-31). Where will you spend eternity?

Prayer:

Lord Jesus, help us to remember that the main point in life is that in order for You to fill our soul, we first need to be filled by Your Spirit. Our spirit must be born again by asking You to be our Savior and our Lord (2 Peter 3:18).

Thought for the Day:

The Spirit will lead you into all truth (John 16:13). He comforts us with His everlasting love (2 Thessalonians 2:16-17).