As King-elect of Israel,
David served King Saul by playing his harp and singing in order to calm Saul’s
troubled soul. Saul relied on David, but was also jealous of God’s anointing on
the young man’s life. He had a need for David, but also a hatred that burned so
deeply that he often tried to take David’s life (1 Samuel 20:1-17).
One day, Saul’s son Jonathan
looked at David and realized that in him he had a brother for life. They were
soulmates, so they made a covenant between them. Jonathan gave David all that
he possessed and did whatever David needed in order to protect his beloved
friend from his father’s cruelty, even to the point of giving up his own life (1 Samuel
18:1-4).
There are few people in the
world today with that type of commitment and love for one another (Psalms
41:9). Jesus Christ made just such a vow
to every human being ever born. He gave His own life as a ransom to pay the sin
debt that we owe. He died in our place, so that we would never have to taste
death. Our last breath on this earth leads to our very next breath in Heaven,
and we owe it all to Jesus Christ. Jesus is a friend that sticks closer to us
than a brother (John 15:13-15). He
will never leave us or forsake us (Hebrews 13:5).
At times people find it almost impossible to bond with other human beings. They are so shy or have such limited people skills that they make others uncomfortable around them. Angry people make poor friends and the Bible encourages us to stay away from them (Proverbs 22:24). Jeremiah warns us against hanging out with a brother or neighbor who is a deceiver or slanderer (Jeremiah 9:4).
Paul tells us to stay away
from people who love their self, pleasure and money. He warns us against making
friends with the proud, arrogant, abusive, disobedient to parents, ungrateful,
unholy and heartless, unappeasable, brutal, treacherous, reckless and
conceited. He is especially uncomplimentary toward people who act religiously, but who
reject the power that could make them godly. He also singles out idlers,
gossips and busybodies as poor potential friends (2 Timothy 3:1-5; 1 Timothy
5:13-14).
The secret to having friends
is to be friendly (Proverbs 18:24). We
learn how to be a good friend from the wisdom of God’s Word. We love one
another at all times and stand with each other through trials and tribulation (Proverbs
17:17; Proverbs 27:6,10). We have
concern for one another, we avoid arguing and division, and we share in one
another’s pain as well as rejoicing when someone is honored (1
Corinthians 12:25-26).
Sometimes a friend speaks the truth to us in love (Ephesians 4:15, 25). This often hurts our feelings and makes us angry. Sparks may fly between us like iron sharpening iron (Proverbs 27:17). However, true Christians will always submit to one another and settle our differences with grace and humility (1 Peter 5:5).
The fact is that two people facing life together is better than one, because they reap a double reward for their labor. If one falls, the other is there to lift him/her up. We provide warmth for one another in both body and soul. A three-fold cord is not quickly broken; and when Christ is in the center of a friendship, no one will be able to stand against us (Ecclesiastes 4:9-12).
Sometimes a friend speaks the truth to us in love (Ephesians 4:15, 25). This often hurts our feelings and makes us angry. Sparks may fly between us like iron sharpening iron (Proverbs 27:17). However, true Christians will always submit to one another and settle our differences with grace and humility (1 Peter 5:5).
The fact is that two people facing life together is better than one, because they reap a double reward for their labor. If one falls, the other is there to lift him/her up. We provide warmth for one another in both body and soul. A three-fold cord is not quickly broken; and when Christ is in the center of a friendship, no one will be able to stand against us (Ecclesiastes 4:9-12).
Prayer:
Lord Jesus, at times, our
friends are too busy or burdened by cares in their own life to help us out.
However, You are a friend that sticks closer than a brother (John
15:13-15). You told us that if we ask,
You will answer; if we seek, You will show us the way; if we knock You will
open the door to us (Luke 11:5-10).
Teach us to be this type of friend to one another, and to lift one another up;
so that those in the world will see our love for one another and be drawn to
our fellowship with You (John 13:35).
Thought for the Day:
True friendship revives the
life within our soul.