Tuesday, September 3, 2013

Escaping the Gridlock of Disappointment



 
Our current circumstances will not last forever. God has a purpose in them for us and for those around us. As we focus on Jesus, God gives us everything we need to live a fulfilled life in Him, even during negative circumstances (Matthew 6:33). We look beyond the present moment and focus on the glory set before us, just like Jesus did (Hebrews 12:2). When our faith and hope collide like a car wreck into some abrupt incident, which life T-bones us with, it throws us off course. Disappointment, discouragement, depression; and sometimes, even hopelessness settle into our very bones and they are hard to dislodge.

Our only hope is to draw near to God. Then as we resist Satan, he must flee from us with his entire demonic hoard (James 4:7). We can write in our journal or pour our heart out to God in prayer. We may even read our words scribbled across our journal and realize that God spoke the answer as we unburdened our heart on its pages. God gives us a future and a hope (Jeremiah 29:11). We know without a doubt that in the next instant we will hear God’s voice telling us which way to turn to escape this gridlock with disappointment. He may use His Word, a thought, a person or an instance to give us His direction.

My friend lost her baby in childbirth. In the midst of her anguish, God showed her that although her arms ached to hold this precious child, God was already holding the baby in His everlasting arms. What better place for her child to rest for eternity? Life starts at conception, and her baby's little soul is now in heaven with our Savior. This is a fact to celebrate, in spite of their sadness at never having known their child during her temporary life on earth. Their beloved child may have left this mortal world, with all of its suffering and trials, but she did not miss her immortal home in heaven. Right now, she is waiting there for us all.

Once we understand our feelings we can forgive the one who offended us. Once we sleep on it, few things are as momentous as they seemed at first. We may realize that we over-reacted to the situation. We may need to ask forgiveness for our behavior. Once we understand God’s perspective in the situation, hope rises in our soul. We see God’s direction for this new day and we walk in His ways by the guidance of His Holy Spirit. God has a perfect plan for every life. Even a fatal illness is nothing to fear. God has His plan in it and He will work out His purposes through it. We can rest assured that it will accomplish results for our good (Romans 8:28).

Prayer:
Father God, You make all things beautiful in Your time (Ecclesiastes 3:11). You help us to keep our perspective centered in Your faithfulness whenever we experience tribulation in this world. We often allow minor issues, which will have no meaning a week from now, to bowl us over and knock us for a loop when they first occur. Remind us that You are the Father of all mercy and comfort. You calm us in our sickness and trials, so that we may share this same consolation with others when they experience similar situations. We experience suffering for Christ’s sake, but we also receive abundant comfort through Him as well (2 Corinthians 1:3-5).

Thought for the Day:
Faith provides us with total surrender and trust in the faithfulness of God, over a future outcome, which we cannot yet foresee.