Sunday, January 27, 2013

Conversation Openers



Have you ever wanted to share your faith with someone…anyone…family or stranger, and you could not think of what to say? Evangelists have come up with a few easy questions to get the conversation started.

“Do you attend church anywhere?”
“Have you ever read any of the Bible?”
“What do you believe about Jesus?”
“Do you think there is a heaven and hell?
“If what you believe is wrong, would you want to know the truth?”

You can add any number of generic questions to this list! If the person sincerely answers the question, that gives you an opportunity to share with them what Jesus did in your life. Not a long soliloquy, but a short synopsis made up of about three to five sentences. Write out your testimony in as many words as you would like to use. Then, narrow it down to 3-5 sentences. This gives you a good way to tell others about the changes in your life since coming to Christ.

Open your Bible and let the person you are talking to read these verses. They are called the Romans’ Road to Salvation and are the traditional verses used in witnessing: Romans 3:23; Romans 5:8; Romans 6:23; Romans 10:9-11. A few other helpful verses are: John 3:3; John 3:16-18; Revelation 3:20.

Then you can ask:
1. Have you ever sinned? (told a lie, coveted something, gotten angry or drunk)
2. Do you want to pay the penalty of those sins or would you like complete forgiveness?
3. Do you believe that God became man in the form of Jesus Christ and died on the cross for you and rose again?
4. Are you willing to surrender your life and will to God in exchange for a personal relationship with Jesus Christ?
5. Are you ready to invite the Holy Spirit to move into your life?

Some people you are sharing with will come up with excuses such as these:

1. The church is full of hypocrites.
            You are so right. The church is not a showcase for Saints, but a hospital for
           sinners.

2. My parents would disown me.
          Jesus came across this scenario and He said, “If you love your mother or
          father more than you love me, you are not worthy of Me.”

3. I am just not ready.
          Why? (Then listen).
          Well, what if you die today or tomorrow and you are not ready?

4. I already believe in God.
         The Bible says that even demons believe in God and tremble. Salvation
          takes repentance as well as belief. That means to totally turn away from a
          sinful lifestyle and to surrender your life and your will to God. Have you done 
          that?

5. There are too many religions in the world. I don’t know what to believe.
          There are really only two types of religions in the world. Those that believe
          Jesus is God, who came in the flesh to save us from the penalty of our
          sins; and those who do not believe in Jesus. Jesus said that HE is the only
          way, truth and life.

6. There are so many translations of the Bible. I don’t know which one is right.
          There are two types of Bibles: paraphrases and translations. The
          translations are taken from the original Greek and Hebrew of the Bible.
          The Dead Sea Scrolls proved that the translations today are very close to
          the original scriptures.

7. The Bible’s been changed so many times.
          The Bible has never been changed. The translations we use today are
          extremely similar to the original texts. The Dead Sea Scrolls prove this to
          be true. Every archeological discovery ever made proves the truth of the          
         Bible and not one has ever proven otherwise.

8. Will I have to give up my bad habits (stop sinning) if I become a Christian?
         No, God will take them away from you one at a time and give you back so
        much more. Then your life will be so full, you will never miss them.

9. How can I serve a God who sends people to hell.
          God desires that NO ONE goes to hell, but that everyone will repent and
          believe on Jesus Christ as his/her Savior. We condemn our self by our
          unbelief (John 3: 16-18).

10. How can I serve a God who orders His people to kill little babies and women?
          God is a God of mercy, but He is also a God of justice. The people who
          died in the Old Testament refused to believe in Him or to serve Him. This
          is written as a warning to us that if we also refuse to believe, we will spend
          eternity in hell.

11. My friends will unfriend me if I become a Christian.
          You will find truer friends in God’s family than anywhere else on earth. Not
          every one who claims to be Christian will live like Christ. However, those who 
          who do live like Christ will be happy to have you as a friend.
   
Sample Prayer:
Lord Jesus, I confess that I am a sinner. I repent of my sins and turn to You for salvation. I believe that You are God who came in the flesh to save me from my sins. I trust in You and surrender my life and my will to Your control. Amen.