Friday, June 19, 2020

Balancing Our Life


orange and white tabby cat sleeping beside window



In planning our to-do list, we often place items on it in the order of which we feel that they are the most important for us to accomplish each day. Personal goals, family needs, expectations from our self and others, obligations that we made, etc. will all influence what determines their importance.

The pressures of daily life, along with the unplanned surprises that life sprinkles through each day, can be daunting at times. We may feel overwhelmed, worried, fearful, weary, or even get downright depressed and despondent.

Attempting in our own strength to overcome issues never helps, because God is our only true "lifter of our head" (Psalm 3:3-4). Ignoring or censoring our true feelings ruins our life too, because this always makes trials harder to bear and affects our health and well-being.

Honest expression of our thoughts and emotions to the Lord, our prayer partners or our prayer journal, or our best friend will prevent them from crippling our behavior. We are then able to rid our mind of their intensity, and to turn over everything to our Father God for His wisdom and resolution.

In our efforts to care for the needs of others, it is also vitally important to balance our life by setting aside some "play time" for our self as well. Relaxing, pursuing our favorite hobby, watching sports or a movie on TV, time out with our family or friends, etc. are all dynamic remedies for those unexpected times, which try to cause us stress and overwhelming challenges.

It is vitally important for us to show as much compassion and care for our own needs as we do for the needs of others. When the day is done, we put aside our to-do list without regret or anxiety, and just add tomorrow's demands to the bottom of the list.

Then, the next day, we consult the Lord for His input and order of importance for each item. God's will for us eliminates the toxic poison of the immediate and unrelenting demands on our time, energy, and human resources. Walking in the Spirit gives us His anointing to do all things for God's glory and by the direction of His Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 10:31).

Prayer:
Father God, help us to stop putting undue pressure on our self to accomplish the unrealistic schedules that we make for our self and our family. Teach us to separate the good things in which we want to participate from the greatest events that are in the center of Your will for us to achieve. We want to eliminate from our life the highly toxic effects of stress, worry, and lack of sleep and relaxation.

Help us to congratulate and to encourage our self, rather than to criticize and belittle our genuine efforts. Teach us that we are a person too, and we can minister to our self in the same way that we serve one another. Help us to erect kind and loving boundaries between us and potential threats to our mental and emotional health. We pray to You without ceasing, because You are the only true Light, Love and Living Water of our life both now and for eternity.

Thought for the Day:
When we stop accepting into our life, the events, people, and circumstances that make us feel uncomfortable, anxious, and fearful, then we can victoriously walk in God's Spirit through each trial we encounter with His perfect peace, boundless joy, and bright hope for our future.